Azmaish wala dur

Har insan ki zindagi may aik dur ata hai jab woh samhajta hai k us ki life may kuch nahi chal raha hai aur kabhi kuch sahi nahi ho ga . Asil may yeh dur us ki azmaish ka hai, is may jo sabit qadam rahtay hain wohi kamiyab hotay hain.

Manati hun k yeh k jab har taraf say rastay band milain aur lagay k akeylay hain tou bohat takleef aur depression hoti hai. Lakin yaad rakain k yeh azmish wala dur guzar jaye ga, umeed na chorain aur himat na harain koshish karaty rahain. Allah pay aur khud pay bahrosa karain.

Mushkilata k baad hi asaniyain ati hain. Yahi mushkilat wala rasta hi kamiyabhi ki taraf jata hai. Iss k liye koi short cut nahi hai. Jo short cut k chakkar may rahatay hain who kamiyab nahi hotay balkay zalil-o-khawar hotay hain.

Allah insan ko us k mukil dur may sabit qadam rahay ki himat day aur ussay kamiyab karay (Ameen) 

ADVICE

It’s very easy to give advice but very difficult to follow it yourself. People always say that before giving advice try to put you in place of other person but the fact is you can’t do that because our way of thinking and personality might be different from other person. Another reason is, talking or imagining about something is totally different from actually experiencing that thing.

Most physically abused people are bounded mentally and emotionally rather than physically. They are mentally paralyzed by the pain which they endure and we can’t understand that pain or the feeling. It is possible that if we are in their place we don’t follow our own advice J

They have to overcome their fear and it’s the biggest challenge, the people who can do that are courageous people and they can face anything.

In my opinion the only advice you can give to anybody is: 

“Face your own fear and try to fight with it “

Sight and Vision

I was talking to some one about injustice of Allah and his answers opened new questions for me but I want to share that conversation:

Me: “Why Allah makes some people blind or deaf or disabled. It’s not fair with those people.”

He: “Actually we don’t know what is right or wrong. So, how can we be the judge of these things? Can you honestly say that to have a sight is good thing?”

I kept silent because honestly I don’t know the answer. I also remember a quote that says: “The worst thing than losing your sight, is losing your vision.”

I know vision comes with feelings and from heart and Allah gives every person that so how can I say that Allah is not being fair?

Think about it, J

Something about women and their fantasies :)

Woman of all age have some fantasy are regardless of their age or status, but it doesn't mean that we r not practical. Let me explain this with example :

Yesterday, I went to a shoe shop and saw "the shoes of Cinderella" there. These shoes were made of net, they were white in color and looked very delicate. When I wore them, i felt like a princess. But I didn't buy them.
I saw another another black pair of shoes made of leather, which looked strong and more practical.
I bought them.
The reason for buying leather shoes was the need of shoes for daily wear.

There is a misconception that women buy unnecessary thing. But in reality we buy things which are needed, not the things we want to buy or which fancy us. It’s true that we fantasies things but we women are strong enough that when the times comes we ignore our fantasy and do things which are more practical. We women are proud of ourselves because deep down we know that we got the strength to face this world.

Definition of Majlis

I explained the meaning of majlis to my Hindu friend

Friend:"What is majlis?"

Me: "Basically majlis is the gathering in which our religious leader gives lecture on any topic and relates that topic to the incident of karbala"

Friend: "Ok. It sounds a little bit tough."

Me: "No! We go there to attend that lecture. We don't have to give the lecture.”

Friend: "Yes. Got your point"

Me: "Good"

Friend: "But how do they relate every topic?"

Me: "Basically everything we do can be related to good or evil and that’s what they do."

Friend: "Ok"

PRAYER

Praying is a very important part of our life and every religion teaches its follower to pray .

Praying is basically a symbol of hope. In other words, it shows us
that we are hoping for something. But the question is: What are we hoping to get though our prayers?

Most people have the opinion that "we should pray to Allah for what we deserve instead of what we desire because what we deserve would be much better than what we desire."

But I think we should not pray for either what we deserve or what we desire.

We should only pray for Allah's Blessing, because only HE can bless us with what we actually desire in a way that we deserve.

We can only be safe when we are under Allah's blessing. :)
I pray "May Allah bless you all." :D

Planning The Wonderland Escape

Even thought I’ve lived in this wonderland for so long and learned lots of new things but, the thing is that it will always remain wonderland and I don’t want to be here.

But the problem is I‘m lost in this world and can’t find my way back to my world. I know I will find my way because I have belief in myself. :)

This world is just like puzzle to me here they say one thing, but means something totally different; I always have to guess their motives. It’s tiring job.

It’s a deceiving world and my biggest fear is that if I live here too long then I will become one of them and lose my way as well myself forever.

The lessons I have learned are not so pleasant either. They will always remain in my mind as bad memories.

Hope that I will come out of this wonderland soon even thought I’m sure that I will be a changed person but it would be me. :)